Can you get a sugar daddy when you're fat?

[ericahill]

I’m 36, a smaller BBW, and get a lot of attention for my curves. I made profiles on Seeking Arrangement and Secret Benefits, got some interest, but nothing solid. Once I mention my age, it fizzles. I don’t need the money - I work full-time and handle my life - but I like the idea of someone investing in me for the thrill and perks. Is it my age, my size, or am I just not cut out for this? I'm not sure anymore.

 

[aimeebolt]

Hey, it’s me. I’m just like you, probably even bigger.

But despite what people might think, I do well. I get noticed and admired, and honestly, you probably could too.

Here's my advice:

1. Be confident. It's key.
2. Be smart. If you don't know something, take the time to learn. Have a good conversation and be able to keep up.
3. Show off what you’ve got. If you’ve got great assets, don’t be shy about it. Wear clothes that highlight your best features.
4. Be comfortable in your own skin. Embrace your body and be confident in the bedroom.
5. Invest in yourself. Take care of your appearance, work on your health, and prioritize self-care.
6. Agility. Look it up, and feel free to reach out if you have questions.
7. Don’t be afraid to express your fun side.
8. Be proactive. Stop complaining about not finding someone and take action.

I’ve been doing this for 7 years, always having a sugar daddy and an allowance.

Yes, it's possible to find what you’re looking for, but you have to believe it’s possible.

Thanks for listening to my rant!

 

[samantha]

The idea that a sugar baby must have a flat stomach is a myth shaped by society’s beauty standards. Being a sugar baby is about forming a mutually beneficial relationship with a sugar daddy or mommy, typically involving companionship, financial support, and other forms of assistance in exchange for time and attention. In the sugar dating world, confidence, self-love, and embracing who you are matter most.