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Cedric

Cedric

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I signed up for a site called altsexdating.com because a review said it was good for people interested in BDSM. It turned out to be a different site called mistressmeet.com, which has a lot of fake reviews. After checking real user feedback, I realized the whole thing was a scam.

I can easily meet women in everyday life, but I don't know how to find those with similar fetish interests. Normal dating apps feel like the wrong place for it, and while Fetlife is a large community, it's not designed for finding dates.

I'm young and fit, but I have no idea where the women I'm looking for are.
 
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You’re right - Fetlife is more for finding local events and meeting people in person, not really for online dating.

If you want to find like-minded partners, just use a regular dating app like Tinder and be clear that you're interested in fetish stuff. That's how I found most of my kinky partners.
 
I made the mistake of subscribing to Subordom. It works like other scammy sites: your inbox gets flooded with messages as soon as you join, but you have to pay to read them. Once you pay, those users never come back online.

The site also fakes activity by sending messages on your behalf, so you get replies from people you never contacted.

Scammers are everywhere on the site, and the moderators protect them. If you try to warn others in the forums about scammers or dangerous requests for money, your post is deleted.

Worst of all, canceling your subscription is deliberately difficult. You can't do it online. You must print, fill out, sign, and email back a form, which is an insecure and outdated process.

My advice is to avoid Subordom completely. It seems like a total scam.
 
There are many fetish dating sites today, each offering different features - from simple to advanced.

Here are some options I found (I've only tried a few so far):
  • BDSMDatingOnly.com
  • Bdsmpassions.com
  • Bondagedating.com
  • Dommez.com
  • Fetish.com
  • Femdommatch.com
  • Fetside.com
  • Fetster.com
  • Kinkdapp.com
  • Kinkoo.app
  • Playfetish.com
  • Recon.com
  • Sub-or-dom.com
  • Xtremechat.com
I’ve tried KinkD and FetSide - both were decent. I haven’t used the rest yet but plan to check them out soon and share my thoughts later.
 
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Hi! For a fetish website, you can check out KinkTalk. It’s mostly online, but there are members from all over, and some people do meet in person. It also has good info about safety.

I would avoid Fetster. They deleted my account for no reason, and when I made a new one to ask why, they deleted that one too. After reading reviews, I saw that many others had the same problem.
 
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